[externals] FFmpeg -> v8.0-be99d2c0b2, OpenSSL -> v3.6.0-e3608d80df, SDL2 -> 2.32.10-38e0094637 (#3003)

FFmpeg:
- builds for FreeBSD, OpenBSD, Solaris
- minsizerel
- Proper system lib linking on MinGW
- removed shared stuff entirely outside of android because their build system SUCKS

OpenSSL:
- macOS universal
- Proper system lib linking on MinGW

SDL2:
- macOS universal

Both are now based on branches/commits rather than tags (since their respective release branches have a ton of new stuff lol)

Signed-off-by: crueter <crueter@eden-emu.dev>
Reviewed-on: https://git.eden-emu.dev/eden-emu/eden/pulls/3003
Reviewed-by: Lizzie <lizzie@eden-emu.dev>
Reviewed-by: CamilleLaVey <camillelavey99@gmail.com>

cpmfile.json

@@ -4,13 +4,8 @@
         "package": "OpenSSL",
         "name": "openssl",
         "repo": "crueter-ci/OpenSSL",
-        "version": "3.6.0",
-        "min_version": "1.1.1",
-        "disabled_platforms": [
-            "macos-universal",
-            "mingw-amd64",
-            "mingw-arm64"
-        ]
+        "version": "3.6.0-e3608d80df",
+        "min_version": "1.1.1"
     },
     "boost": {
         "package": "Boost",